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AC/DC – Meaning an individual who is bi-sexual. Adult – Euphemism for pornographic. All Cultures – Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities. American Culture – Man on top, the missionary position. Anal Sex – Anal intercourse; see Greek, Greek Culture. Analingus – Oral contact or stimulation of the anus of one partner by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other. Animal Training – Sexual activity with animals, usually dogs and women; Bestiality. Arts– Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures. Return to top B & D – This stands for bondage and discipline. BBW – # Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their "ideal" weight, but are comfortable with the size that they are. BDSM - Bondage, discipline, sadomasochism Back Door – This is a slang commonly used by swinger for anal sex. Bestiality – (see ANIMAL TRAINING). Bi – Bisexual: Versatile. Bi-curious – A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities. Bisexuality – is a sexual orientation which refers to the romantic and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Bizzare – Unusual sexual desires. Bondage – When an individual is sexually aroused when being restrained or is subject to corrective treatment by another. (B & D) Return to top Can Entertain – Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging. Can Travel – Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing.. Caning – A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood. Cheating – Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and/or consent. Clean – Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases. Closed swinging – # Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms, usually in the same house. Provides a maximum of privacy. Closet swinger – A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. Couple – In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes. CPL – see Couple. Cuckold – While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean(more often than not) a husband who's wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it.It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This canalso be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it isbest to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. Culture – Euphemism for Fetish or Arts. Cunnilingus – # Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (see FRENCH CULTURE). Return to top DP – This stands for double penetration. Dildo – # An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus. Director – The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsiblefor party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager. Discipline – These are disciplinary actions which arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) Discreet or Discretion – Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity. Docile – Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE). Domestic Training – Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature. Dominiant – A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner. Return to top English Culture – Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning. Etiquette – Complex of rules Exhibitionism – Meaning an individual’s sexual desire to show off their private parts to others. Return to top F – Female. Fellato – Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. Fetish – It is sexual arousal through the use of objects or affection to parts of the body, such as fingers, feet, leather, and etc. Flagellation – Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. French – This is another meaning for oral sex. French Culture – Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). Fun and Games – Euphemism for sexual activity. Full Swap – having penetrative sex with someone other than one's partner. Return to top Gay – A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian. GBM – Gay Black Male. Generous – Refers to money for sex. Greek – A slang word used for anal intercourse. Group Room – Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM). Group Sex – Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people. GWM – Gay White Male. Return to top Hard Core – A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected. AHrd Swinging – see Hard Core. Head – Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture ). Hedonist – An individual or one who lives only for pleasure. Heterosexual – Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. Homosexual – Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY). Horny – Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. House party – Usually private swing party taken place in private house or club. Hung – Refers to a man with a large penis. HWP – Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight. Return to top Indoor – Swinging activities in general. Indoor sports – see Indoor. Interested in friendship – Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values. IRL – In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat. ISO – In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female. Return to top Jack gagger – A husband that procures men to pay for sex with his wife. Jactitation – A false boast that causes harm to others, sometimes sexual. Jancis – a person who is hungry for sex. Jerk-off – Slang term for male masturbation. Jism – Slang term for semen. John – A slang term for the customer of a prostitute. Juvenilism – Dressing or acting out role of a juvenile, sometimes sexual. Return to top Kabbazah Sex – Tantra sex, male passive, female active. Kaplan's tri-phasic model – A model that, unlike Masters and Johnson's model, divides sexual response into three phases: desire, excitement, and orgasm. Kaposi's sarcoma – A formerly rare cancer of the blood vessels that is now common as one of the opportunistic infections that strike people with AIDS; it appears as lesions on the skin. Karezza Sex – Coitus reservatus. Kegel exercises – Exercise of the pelvic muscles that control orgasm. Kegel exercises – A set of exercises designed to strengthen and give voluntary control over the muscles surrounding the genitals (known as the pubococcygeus muscles) and thereby increase sexual pleasure and awareness. Kleptolagnia – Arousal from stealing. Kleptomania – Compulsion to steal. Kleptophilia – Arousal from stealing. Kleptophilia – A sexual variation in which the person derives sexual excitement from stealing. Klinefelter syndrome – A genetic condition in which a male has extra X chromosomes, thereby causing the development of female secondary sex characteristics. It is widely believed that Joan of Ark was a "Klinefelter male.". Klismaphilia – Arousal from enemas. Klismaphilia – A sexual variation in which the person derives sexual excitement from giving or receiving enemas. Knismolagnia – Arousal from tickling. Kokigami – The wrapping of the penis in a paper costume. Kolpeuryntomania – Stretching of the vagina. Koro – A Japanese form of psychopathology referring to the delusion that one's penis is shrinking into one's body. Return to top Leather – A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing or touching of leather or leather garments. Lesbian – A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. LTR – Long Term Relationship. Return to top Marital Arts – Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others. Masochism – Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others. MASTER/SLAVE – Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (see B&D, Bondage, Discipline). MATROOM – Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see Group Room). Meet for Pleasure – Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. Menage A'Trois – Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. (see Threesome, Triad). Moresomes – More than three people in a swinging interaction. (see Group Sex). MBC – Married Black Couple. MBiC – Married Bisexual Couple. MWC – Married White Couple. Return to top NASCA – The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs andmagazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become. Levels ofmembers: Affiliate Club, General, Associate and Institutional for swing clubs and magazines,general swinging community, media and institutions of learning and research. Newcomers – New people in swinging; First-timers. NonSmoker – Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes. Return to top Off Premise - These are events in which sexual activity is prohibited at the party. If members wish to get together sexually they either go to a hotel, home, or else where for pleasure. Open Door – see Open Swinging. Open Swinging – A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room. A minimum of privacy. Oral-Genital – (see French Culture, Cunnilingus, Fellatio, Head). On Premise - These are events usually held at house parties or private clubs. Sexual activities are allowed in designated areas or bedrooms. There are also safe rooms where sexual activities are not allowed to take place. Open swinging – This kind of swinging allows partners to swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. Orgy - A party which involves unrestrained indulgence, especially in sexual activity. Complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. Return to top Parties – These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. Party – Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging. Party Clothes – Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, showsthe wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. Party House – A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. Passive – Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging. (see Discipline). Photo – Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others. Photography – Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or moviesof others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. P/P – Photo and phone number (used in personal ads). PRO – Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts. Return to top Recreational Swinger – A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion; not interested in forming any long term friendship or emotional attachment. Restraint – Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments. Roman - Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. Roman Culture – Sexual orgies. Rubber – Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. Return to top Sadism – Sexual gratification through inflicting pain and humiliation on others. Safe – Male with vasectomy or female with hysterectomy or tubal ligation. (This means that he or she is unable to become pregnant or to impregnate respectively.) S.A.S.E – Self-addressed stamped envelope. SBF – Single Black Female. SBiF – Single Bisexual Female. SBM – Single Black Male. SGL – (see Single). S&M or S/M – Sadism and Masochism (see Sadism, Masochism). Single – A swinger without a partner, does not refer to marital status. Social – A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social. Social Swin gClub – A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important. Sodomy – Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite sex or same sex partner. Same room swing (SRS) – it is sexual activity between several couples and partners in the same room. Separate room swing – it is sexual activity when couples swap the partners and have sex in separated rooms. Social – It is an event that is organized in a get-acquainted area of neutral ground, such as a restaurant, or dance hall. These are often followed by a party. Soft Swing - Where two couples will agree to watch each other during sexual activities. Soft Swingers – Couples who only have intercourse with their own partner. No swapping for intercourse. Swinger – It is when one or as part of a couple engages in recreational sex. Swinging – This is where two or more couples agree to get together for the express purpose of engaging in intimate, sexual activities with a partner or partners other than their own. Swinger Lifestyle - This is a lifestyle where a couple or individual enter into for the purpose of engaging in intimate, sexual activities with a partner or partners other than their own. STD – Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STR or STR8 – (see Straight). Straight – Any person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or A person who does not use drugs; also used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. Submissive – Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). Swapping – This mean the exchanging of partners by two couples. Swedish Culture – Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another. SWF – Single White Female. Swing magazine – A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community. Swinging Marriage – Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals. SWM – Single White Male. Return to top TAN – Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus(AIDS). Threesome – Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. (see Menage a Trois). Ticket – A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing. Toys – Sexual aids (see Marital Aids). Transsexual – Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or one who is in the process of gender conversion. Transvestite – A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily homosexual. Travel – (see Can Travel). Triad – Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome. Triolism – Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see Triad). Tuballigation – Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation. Return to top Utopian Swinger – A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. Return to top Vasectomy – Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male. Versatile – Bisexual. (see AC/DC). Vibrator – Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are forsurface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. Voluptuous – Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. Voyeur – A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. Voyeurism – It is observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. Return to top Way-outs/Weirdos – Those people interested in activities usually considered by the majority to be bizarre, kinky, unusual, or unconventional. Water Sports – This is a form of sexual stimulation where one urinates on other. Return to top Yeast Infection – A vaginal infection caused by the fungus Candida albicans. Also known as candidiasis or moniliasis. Yohimbine – An alleged aphrodisiac derived from the bark of the African yohimbe tree. Yoni worship – Worship of the female genitals. Yoshiwara – Japanese prostitutes. Return to top Xenodynamic – only potent with strangers. Xenodynamic – Person who is only potent with strangers. Xenolimia – Arousal from strangers. Xenophilia – Arousal from strangers. X-rated – Visually explicit. Derived from the Motion Picture Association's rating system. Return to top Zelophilia – rousal from jealousy. ZIFT – Acronym for zygote intrafallopian transfer. Zooerasty – Arousal from animals. Zoophilia – Arousal from animals. Zwischenstufe – Arousal from person of same sex. Zygote – The developing organism from fertilization to implantation; a fertilized egg. Zygote Intra-Fallopian Transfer (ZIFT) – A procedure often used with infertile couples in which an egg is fertilized by sperm in a laboratory dish and is then placed into the fallopian tube of the woman. Return to top Return to Main Page | 
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