Most people (not in the 'loop') are shocked by the swinger lifestyle, so swingers have learned a long time ago to keep their sexual adventures to themselves. If anyone meet them for the first time, he/she would probably never guess the exciting sex they have with other swingers. Swingers could be one's best friends. They could be the next door neighbor.

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Like most swingers, the swinging couple first sexual experience with another person is a threesome. Usually what begins as an erotic and kinky threesome, soon turns into a regular thing. Many times the other man/woman gets a boy/girlfriend of his/her own, and after talking , they all end up in a full out four-way orgy of swing-time.

There are many myths about swingers, and many facts.

Myth about swingers #1: Swingers were a thing of the sixties and seventies

FACT: There are more swingers TODAY , than at any other time in history. For many people, it's become a way of life. Entire vacations are planned months in advance for popular swinger destinations. Online communities for adult swinger couples have sprung up, and a simple search reveals many provocative web sites packed with ads placed by swingers. There are large commercial sites relating the lifestyle.

Myth about swingers #2: Swinging isn't safe - swingers have sexually transmitted diseases

FACT: The same rules apply for swingers as they do for singles. Never have unprotected sex with anyone you don't know or are not sure you can trust. Lots of swinger couples have had sex with dozens of other couples, have been in what would qualify as a full out orgy, and at all times have practiced safe sex.. Swinging with married couples may even be safer than having sex with single people. Why? Because when they are married, and the other couple are both married, there generally isn't a long history of promiscuous sex partners, as is common with single, sexually active adult men and women.

Myth about swingers #3: A person has to be in a relationship to become a swinger

FACT: This is probably the biggest myth ever about becoming a swinger. Many, many couples fantasize about threesomes with a SINGLE female or male. Most swinging couples pursue threesomes with another woman, but a large number also pursue threesomes with men. Cruise online swingers personals and you'll quickly find both tastes, probably a lot more than you think.

And another thing... most swinging couples CAN'T get enough sex. They are highly sexual beings. They will always be highly sexual beings. If somebody become the third in a threesome with a swinging couple, and he/she can please the couple, rest assured they'll seek him/her out for a lot more sex. Again. And again. And again.

Myth about swingers #4: Swinging is a bad thing for a good relationship

FACT: Okay, this is a trick question. Swinging can be a bad thing for a good relationship. It depends on the trust level of both people. If either man or woman has a tendency to be jealous, It is recommend against swinging. Only if both people are highly confident with each other, and with the relationship, it is recommend taking that first step and having a swing-time experience.

Myth about swingers #5: Swinging is a dirty perversion

FACT: It just depends on who's point of view you ask. For tens of thousands of happy highly sexual couples in the U.S., being a swinger is a beautiful thing. They belong to a prestigious club that most people will never belong to, because most people lack an adventurous spirit and a high sex drive and never experience their fantasies in real life.

If you have an interest in swinging, of involving you and your significant other in highly sexual encounters with other singles and couples, they're out here waiting for you. Join the fun. Live your fantasies. Become a swinger.